Why is it so hard for us to ask for help? We take some wrong turns, our phone batteries need recharging or we can't get a WiFi signal to connect to Waze or Google Maps. But there are some local people nearby, yet we are very hestitant to ask for directions from them.
Or we are in more serious trouble or difficulties and we really can't go it alone. But a lump comes into our throats and we block ourselves from getting the help we need.
What are we afraid of?
Oh someone might see us as weak, or bothersome, hopeless and helpless? It costs us our pride, to ask, I believe. We have all likely felt this. We have to swallow this pride in order to get help.
Actually, I think most people are willing to help but may not know how to help unless specifically asked to help in a specific way. But I think the worst fear might be that someone will say, "NO!"
No, they won't help. Nevermind, seek out others willing to do so.
A characteristic of humility is to ask for help. Did you know that? We can also ask Jesus for help. He said to come to Him, all who are tired and feel like they have a heavy weight on their back. He says He'll give us rest when we do come to Him.
He can also guide us into a good answer (see Mathtew 11:26) and perhaps even a good person to ask for help from.
Listen quietly to the song linked below. Close your eyes and listen well. Let the tears flow if need be. The message is there. In humility, ask for help.
Father God, there's times I'm very relectant to ask for help from people when I can't solve things on my own. Teach me to swallow my pride and fear, and seek the help I need. I need Your rest too. Help me to find the right person who will listen and help me with _________. Thank You, in Jesus' name. Amen.
~ ERC December 2025 ~
Based on Matthew 11:28.
Sing, Lord, I Need You, along with Matt Maher.
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