Growing up in a Christian family will have its advantages. The offspring learn from early age, all the deportment of a Christain. If they abide by it, they do have better shelter from harmful things. That's generally speaking. Some Christian families may not behave as Christian as you might think they should, however.
But, again, that's all generally speaking, and the children know it all in their heads. It certainly doesn't mean they have it all in their hearts. So some of them kick against it in resistance and rebellion.
Then they may feel guilt for this reaction and become angry and even bitter and so turn away from their roots. Even so, I believe that generally speaking, much of what was taught, does stick and govern their lives in unaccountable ways, even subconsciously. I know. I was one of them. At times, that resistance can still flair up.
These thoughts struck me as being parallel in many ways in which Paul describes the advantages the Jews had over the Gentiles, in Romans 3. The Jews claimed the oracle of God for themselves, as if they'd had a monopoly on them. But they did not know that they were the 'trustees' - if you will - of The Law and the Prophets (Old Testament). And even though they were not necessarily following it all from the heart or the head, they were not willing to share it with others. They got violent at even slight mentions of any such thing happening (read the book of Acts for more details of this).
Paul is addressing some of this and trying to get his audience to undersand. Justification can come not just through the law but more importantly through faith.
"All have sinned" (vs 23),
not just the Jews and not just the Gentiles. All. All mankind,
"fall short of the glory of God" (vs 23).
Therefore, all,
"are justified by His grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus ..." (vs 24).
Yes, it came to the Jews first, but God meant His gift of salvation for all, for the "whosoever will" (see John 3:16), who would believe in Jesus, by faith (vs 28).
So whether we have grown up in a Chriustian family or not in today's world, it is still, "by faith" that we enter into God's family through Jesus.
It still has to come voluntarily from the will and heart of a person. It is not by religiously following a creed or set of laws but through faith in Jesus Christ and His offer of salvation.
Those of us who have grown up in Christian families ... let's not throw out the baby with the bath water. We may have observed many inconsistancies and hyporcrisy in our own family or among the church people you've met. There's something called, "progressive sanctification" that each and every believer in Jesus Christ needs to be responsibly and pro-actively aware. If we are not living by faith, if we are not walking in step with the Holy Spirit, living a disciplined Christian life, there will be those who do not live to please the Lord. The product of that is the hypocrisy you've endured and even felt disgusted and disgruntled by. This is sad fact.
We need to search our own hearts and lives and see where we are out of line. Let's not throw out everything we've been brought up immersed in, let's break free of those bonds though that don't add up. Set our own course accordingly and live to please the Lord by the power of His might and Holy Spirit empowerment.
I reach out especially to those who have grown up in Christian families and have been almost totally immersed in a Christian community all their lives. It can be tough finding our way then through non-Christian territory. But I'd encourage you to spend time with the Lord and listen for His voice. He'll steer us right when we heed His guidance.
May our Lord be near and dear to you. I ask in Jesus' name, amen.
~ ERC April 2026 ~
Based on Romans 3:1-8, 21-31 ESV.
Sing, Christus Victor, along with Keith and Kristyn Getty.






