" ... When slandered, we entreat. We have become and are still, like the scum of the world, the refuse of all things" (1 Corinthians 4:13 ESV).
Ironically, my husband and I were speaking with a friend the other day about people who slander others. How bad it feels when we have to listen to someone who is slandering another, and how the listeners want to back off but because they are not sure what to do, they retreat from the person.
If you do or say something about it, then you may well be the next 'victim' of the person's slanderous vendetta. So what can be done when our ears are assaulted by slander?
Well, this morning, what do you know but I stumbled upon 1 Corinthians 4:13. (ESV),
" ...when slandered, we entreat ..." Paul said.
The 'we' being the apostles, plus Paul. They were all in the dog house or even the dirty dungeon of 'Christians', yes, 'Christians' contempt. It was like they were the
"scum of the world" (vs 13).
Can you imagine!? The great apostles who had been Jesus' originally chosen 12 and who'd become apostles (minus Judas Iscariot). They had become 'scum' in the minds of the Corinthians! They were being slandered!
Paul's response though, was not to rage and attack back. It was not to retreat either, rather to 'entreat'.
Entreat was to answer kindly, to beg or beseech the attacker. Does that put you in mind of Proverbs 15:1 (KJV)?
"A soft answer turneth away wrath. But grievous words stir up anger."
But do we dare confront the slanderer? If the person claims to be a follower of Jesus Christ, they'll need to be gently, yet firmly confronted. The how and when would need the Lord's intervention and sincerity of heart on the confronter's part, I should think. Much prayer before action.
If you search the Scriptures you'll find ample mention of slander (or gossip).
"Do not spread false reports"
is in Exodus (23). That's very early on in the Bible.
The book of Proverbs has several references linked to slander. Slander can separate close friends (see 16:28). And in Proverbs 10;18 NLT we read,
"Hiding hatred makes you a liar; slandering others makes you a fool."
Ephesians 4:31 commands,
"Get rid of all ... slander, along with every form of malice" (ESV).
We do well to remember we will have to give account of all our empty words in the day of judgement (see Matthew 12:36).
As believers in Jesus Christ, we need to examine ourselves, watch our thoughts and our words. Are we spewing slander? Repent and confess it to the Lord (see 1 John 1:9).
I read a book by Deborah Smith Pegues about taming our tongues. It was very helpful. There's one thing she would say when another person began to speak slander or gossip to her. She'd say,
"Tongue fast!"
and point to her tongue. This would tell the slanderer that she did NOT, want to hear the slander.
I can imagine that would have stopped some in their tracks. The speaker may even have been offended, but they would have gotten the point - hopefully. It could be worth a try the next time you hear someone spout slander.
In this way you could entreat the person instead of retreating from, especially if that person claims to know and love Christ. By Holy Spirit's empowerment, let us speak gracious and kind words about and to others, and cut off that which attacks and endangers another's character and reputation.
Be honest and seek the Lord's revelations of your own attitudes and words. Ask Him to show you. Then put into action to do as He reveals the truth of unChristlike behavior, to rectify your habits to become more pleasing in His sight. Let's be transformed through progressive sanctification or our souls.
May God get the glory in our thoughts, minds, hearts and actions.
~ ERC May 2026 ~
Based on 1 Corinthians 4:13 ESV.
Sing, What Your Are, Speaks So Loud, along with Selah.
Further related links to check out regarding slander ...
Slanderous Words (TT)
Morning Musings - Slanderous Slander
Tongue Fast (TT)